Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Old Friends

Through the wonder of the Internet I've recently been able to reconnect with old friends I haven't seen in 15 years. I've lost all touch with friends from my early childhood; my oldest friend is someone I've only known since my freshman year of high school, twenty years ago. Michael, on the other hand, has friends that go back to the cradle.
With all our moves, I wonder at what point my children will latch on to a friendship that will last well into adulthood. Nathan's oldest friend is the daughter of a dear friend of mine from five moves ago. Our kids met each other right before their first birthdays. Recently the kids sent a few emails back and forth to each other (with the help of their moms), and Nathan gave an oral report on his "first friend", and spoke about her. They haven't seen each other face to face in four years, so I have no idea what he remembers. Later this year we'll be traveling up to Northern California to visit and let our kids get reacquainted.
It is so easy to let friendships fall by the wayside- it takes loads of work to keep in touch, and with all our moves and friends all over the world it is something that occupies a lot of my time. But it is worth it as there is nothing like a friend who has known you for years through thick and thin and loves you still.


  1. Also, there's nothing like a friend who you haven't been in touch with in years whom you reconnect with and it's like no time at all has passed, and loves you still.

  2. You are right Michael! Thank goodness for facebook, our conduit for reconnection! But let's never again let years go by when we aren't in touch!

  3. They are so little in the picture. Never mind they are wearing 4T and are only two years old!

  4. they are so cute. i'd know the back of that girly head anywhere. how long will you be in northern ca? it would be fun to see you as long as i don't intrude on your time with rachel.


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